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How To Make Your Marriage Last Long

Marriage is the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship. and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man and a woman.

A lot of marriages have crashed , while some are going through many challenges ,of which it’s shouldn’t be so.

Nobody wants to be in a marriage where there is no joy, happiness , security , and most of all been proud of your partner.

Some marriage experts, suggested that there should be room for courtship before marriage in other to know your partner well.

However courtship is a period during which a couple develop a romantic relationship before getting married.

Courtship should be short, between one to  three years , at most. Even if one is in a long relationship, you will never know everything about your partner until you are married.

How To Make Your Marriage Last Long

However Courtship before marriage doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage , although it’s helps a lot in knowing more about your partner.

7 Keys To A Successful And Healthy Marriage.

Here are some important keys in unlocking a  successful and healthy marriage.

– Putting God First 

God over everything , putting God first in all your doings is always a good idea.

Putting your marriage in prayers to God is a necessity for everyone wanting a healthy union.

Forget experts opinion , we are all humans and are pron to make mistakes , we just can’t do without God.

– Love / Commitment

Love is a decision to be committed to another person. It is totally different from fleeting protrayed on television.

However been committed to your partner is essential and a key factor in enjoying a healthy marriage.

Commitment shouldn’t be only during the good times , but also during the bad times as well .

– Sexual Faithfulness

A lot of marriages were destroyed due to sexual unfaithfulness.

Been sexually faithful includes more than just our bodies. It also includes our eyes, mind, heart, and soul.

Guard and preserve your sexuality only to your spouse.

– Humility

We all have weaknesses , and marriage/ relationship exposes these aspect faster than any other thing.

Holding an attitude of superiority over your partner will bring about resentment and will prevent your marriage from moving forward.

If you are  having problems with what your partner does better or have weakness in, you can grab your diary to jot them down and study them from time to time.

– Patience / forgiveness

Before thinking of getting married , you learn to be very patience and have a forgiving heart.

Marriage is all about forgiveness , and been patience with each other as mistake are inevitable in a union.

– Time 

Irrespective of your job or other schedules , both partners involved must create time for each other.

Time spending create that unique bond between couples , as they have the opportunity to share ideas , speak about other things, catch fun and might even hang out if possible.

– Honesty / Trust

Trust is not earn within a day , it’s a gradual process  of being who you say you really are and doing what you say you will do.

Keeping a fake identity or personality will do more harm than good .

Building trust and been honest to each other plays a vital  role in a successful marriage.

There are other factors that contribute to a successful marriage like Good communication , selflessness .

Making your marriage last long is your priority and  every couple must not joke with it.

 

 

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